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What Time Do You Put on a Wedding Invite?

Whose name should be placed first on the wedding invitation? Here is the answer you are looking for!

UPDATED ON December 08, 2023
Wedding Invitations

Can You Send Wedding Invitations Too Early?

It really can't hurt to get things done early when you can, but when it comes to wedding invitations, is there such a thing as too early? That's the question we ask in this blog.

UPDATED ON December 08, 2023

When Should You Send Baby Announcements?

When Should You Send Baby Announcements?
Baby announcements are a lovely way to let friends and family know of a new arrival. The cards can include photographs of the bouncing bundle of joy, as well as a name, date of birth, time and location of birth, weight, and a personal message too if you wish.
But how soon after the baby’s arrival into the world should you be expected to send them out?

Following tradition?

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Typically, new parents will send their baby announcement cards out within six months of their little one’s birth. This is hopefully enough time to settle into a new routine of nappy changing and sleep deprivation, without it being so long after the arrival that everyone will already know all about your new addition.

Get creative

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Some may like to leave it a little longer, and include a collage of photographs on the card, showing baby’s changes from birth to several months old. If you decide to wait a while, you could even add a lovely personal touch by decorating the cards with baby’s hand or footprint at birth and after 6 or 9 months, to show their growth and development.
Of course, there’s also the option to send an earlier email note or post your news on your social media accounts, to keep your loved ones in the loop until you have time to send more formal cards.

Do it early

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But, if you’d like to get the cards sent out to your friends and family sooner, whether because you’d like to thank them for cards and gifts, invite them to a celebration or christening, or simply just because you’d like to share the happy news as soon as possible, then it could pay to be organised before the baby arrives.
While you obviously won’t know all the details to include or have any photos, you can still give the inevitable ‘baby brain’ a helping hand and be prepared by selecting your template - or designing one if you’re creative - ready to add the all-important information when the time arrives.
Whatever you decide, baby announcement cards are a lovely way to let your nearest and dearest know of the new addition. So, whenever they arrive in the post, you can be sure they’ll be treasured.
What to Put on a Baby Announcement Card

What to Put on a Baby Announcement Card

Here at Dotty About Paper, we get plenty of questions about one of the most exciting parts of welcoming a new baby into the world - telling everyone else about it! Baby announcement cards might seem a little old-fashioned, but they're a personable and unique way to tell your family and friends about the new arrival. So, we've put together a handy guide to what you should put on a baby announcement card. Our large selection of baby announcement cards has something special for everyone.

Decide on your style

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Are you going to be formal or fun? Will you use photos of your new bundle of joy or cute cartoons and pictures? The type of card you pick will often inform the kind of information you put on there, so pick your card carefully.

Keep it simple

The purpose of the birth announcement card is to let people know that there's a brand new baby in the world - and it's yours! So it's better to keep things simple when you sit down to write it, rather than cluttering the card up with information people don't need to know. Traditionally, the card begins with a phrase or saying like 'Congratulations' or 'Hello, World'. Then, the names and surnames of the parents and of course, the new full name of the baby.
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Some cards also include other information about the baby, including its date of birth, what time it was born, how much it weighed and its height. You can also include the names of any siblings that the new baby has and how proud everybody is about the new birth.

Example Structure

Mrs X and Mr Y are proud to announce the birth of
First - Middle - Last Name
January 1st 2020
6lb 5oz
17 inches
Extra Information
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If you're looking for your cards to be informal and fun, you can include a little message at the bottom of them. Sometimes these will be pre-printed, so make sure you pick an announcement card that matches how you feel. Lots of parents choose phrases like 'Mum and baby are doing well' or 'Mum and Dad are tired but in love with the new arrival'. If you do want to put an extra message onto the card, pick something that comes from the heart so people can really see your joy through the announcement.
What to Put on a Christening Invite?

What to Put on a Christening Invite?

A christening is a joyous occasion for parents, as well as close family and friends. However, finding the perfect way to invite your loved ones to join you in celebration can sometimes be a challenge. This article offers some advice to help you choose a style of invitation that suits your family, the right words for your invitation and every piece of information to include. From traditional types to more modern twists, our christening invite ideas are suitable for those who prefer simplicity and minimalism, as well as those who want creativity and originality.

1) Choose the style of invitation you would like

With so many types of invitation available, it is undeniable that there will be one available to suit your faith, family and occasion. For those hosting a more traditional christening, there are many formal and effective traditional style invitations. What to Put on a Christening Invite? - Christening Invitations - Summer Roses Featured Product: Christening Invitations - Summer Roses
Those who lean more towards modern styles can find simplistic templates that allow you to focus on the message and sentiment. Many enjoy artistic and expressive invitation designs for a unique and creative invitation that you won’t see anywhere else.

2) Develop a key sentence or phrase to headline the invitation

A christening invitation should be headlined with simple and effective wording that clearly expresses your sentiments. Finding the perfect words to invite your loved ones to such a special occasion is not always an easy task. What to Put on a Christening Invite? - Christening Invitations - Blue Dots Typography - Use Your Own Photo Featured Product: Christening Invitations - Blue Dots Typography - Use Your Own Photo
Keep it simple with these sample phrases:
“Please join us at the christening of our daughter!”
“Please join Jane and John Smith to celebrate the christening of their son Samuel.”
“You are invited to the christening of Samuel Smith.”
“Please join us in the christening of our daughter Emma.”
There are also a wide range of invites that come ready to send, with many key sentiments pre-written by experts to deliver beautiful and personalised feelings.

3) Incorporate all of the relevant information

Including all the relevant information on your invite is key to ensure there is no confusion amongst guests and the day goes as smoothly as possible. What to Put on a Christening Invite? - Christening Invitations - Twins Dotty Bunting - Postcard Featured Product: Christening Invitations - Twins Dotty Bunting - Postcard
Firstly, include your child’s name so every guest will know who is being christened. The second most important piece of information is the date. Followed by the name and address of the church, and the location of the reception (unless you plan on announcing this information at the service).
You may want to experiment with different ways to word this information and you may choose to include a particularly resonant quote from scripture.

4) Ask for RSVPs

Lastly, don’t forget to end your invitation with an RSVP card, email address or phone number so that they can confirm their attendance.
How to Invite People to Your Baby's Christening?

How to Invite People to Your Baby's Christening?

Getting your entire family into one place to celebrate your baby’s first year is a fantastic occasion, but it can also be a troublesome event to organise. Narrowing down who you want to be there for your little one’s special day is a feat in itself. Add a Christening to the mix and things get all the more complex! You’ll need to ensure that you’ve provided all of the attendees with the information they need to get there safely and easily - this is key to a smooth-running event. Christening invitations are traditionally sent to guests but, what exactly do I need to include on my invitations and how do I go about inviting them?

Keep it short but sweet

Usually, christenings involve a short service at the church and then ordinarily have light refreshments after the events have ceased. These refreshments could be held at your home, in the church hall itself or even in a local public house.How to Invite People to Your Baby's Christening? - Christening Invitations - Summer Pastel Flowers - Use Your Own Photo Featured Product: Christening Invitations - Summer Pastel Flowers - Use Your Own Photo
You don’t want your guests to be ringing on the morning of the Christening confirming church and party details so make sure this information is readily available on the invitations for them to refer to.

Don’t forget to send an RSVP card

So you’ve sent out your invitations and you’ve booked the date as planned - but how do you keep track of who’s coming along? Slip an RSVP card into the invitation for your guests to send their response on. Keep your response slips in a safe place. This way, you have an easy approach to seeing exactly who is coming. When it comes to confirming numbers and dietary requirements with any caterers you may have sourced, you won’t be running around after people checking to see whether they’re coming along or not.

Fuss-free invitations from Dotty about Paper

Dotty about Paper is all about providing customers with a personalised experience that allows them to sit back and relax, knowing that the service they’re being provided with is of the highest order. We have a fantastic selection of affordable Christening invitations. Whether your taste is more traditional or leaning towards the contemporary, we have covered all angles.How to Invite People to Your Baby's Christening? - Christening Invitations - Suited & Booted Featured Product: Christening Invitations - Suited & Booted
You can rest assured that your guests will have all of the information they need to make it to your baby’s special day - raise a glass to your baby with your family and friends and leave the invites to us.
Organising a Baby Naming Ceremony

Organising a Baby Naming Ceremony

Welcoming a new child into the world is a happy occasion for any family. Traditionally, christenings and other services have been used to celebrate births. However, these ceremonies don’t always suit parents’ needs. For instance, they may not be members of any religion, or they may have multi-faith family members. Many parents are choosing to hold naming ceremonies instead. Baby A naming ceremony is held to celebrate child’s arrival, regardless of age - this makes them popular with adopting and fostering families too. A ‘celebrant’ leads the ceremony. Parents usually read out special pledges to the child, such as a promise to care for them; supporting adults may do the same. Poetry or prose can be read out. And, of course, there will be an official naming. A few words about the story behind the name adds personal meaning.

Types of Naming Ceremonies

Civil naming ceremonies are a government-led way to mark your child’s arrival. To book one, contact your local Register Office. They are held in a licensed location, and religious content is not allowed. Choosing a civil ceremony means that you won’t have to stress about planning the structure - it is already set out. All you’ll have to do is practise reading your pledges and send out invitations. The Card Gallery has a range of naming ceremony stationery that can be fully personalised. NC2 Featured Designs: 'Twins Peeping Toes' and 'Bunny Fairy' Humanist naming ceremonies are conducted by The British Humanist Association. For a fee, they will provide a celebrant who works with guardians to tailor a ceremony that suits their ideas. They will also lead the ceremony. The venue is not limited, so you can choose your location. The guardians have control over what features they want in the celebration. This allows you to design your dream ceremony. It’s a more expensive option, but you’ll receive professional guidance to help make your own perfect welcoming.

Organise Your Own Ceremony

Remember, naming ceremonies have no legal status. But they are a great way of celebrating a memorable milestone. So why not simply organise a party yourself? Invite friends and relatives to celebrate the arrival of your new family member. Plan promises, speeches, or readings you want to give, and practise them so you’re confident on the day. A great list of poems can be found here if you need some inspiration! You could make refreshments for guests to give the day a celebratory atmosphere, as well as decorating with some bunting and confetti. You could even choose a theme that suits your child’s name, like matching a garden party to a floral name. NC1 Featured Designs: 'Singing Birds Postcard' and 'Rose Bud' Naming ceremonies are a great alternative to traditional christenings. The day can be as formal or as relaxed as you want! And you can choose your own budget, either opting to spend more for some extra help, or arranging the ceremony yourself. Whatever you choose, it’s sure to be a memorable day for all.
The facts about twins and triplets

The facts about twins and triplets

Having a baby is an almost indescribable joy, and giving birth to twins or triplets should double or treble the joy. In the UK, the latest statistics report that there were 12,675 multiple births in 2012 up from 7,375 in 1984. This equals just under 16 multiple births per every 1000 births, this has increased by 72% since 1984. To put this in perspective, in 1984, 1 of every 94 births was a multiple birth. By 2012 this was down to 1 in every 65. According to www.twinsuk.co.uk, this increase is due to: • Growing birth rate - more births equals more multiple births • Maternal age - 'older' women (30+) as multiple births increase with age • Assisted reproduction - accessibility of IVF, ICSI, fertility drugs etc • Medical advances - more babies now survive, even very premature ones. Interestingly, the chance of giving birth to identical twins remains the same: 1 in 250. Giving birth to identical triplets is rare, which is one of the reasons that the 1 year old Gilbert sisters have recently made the news. These little bundles are so alike that the parents can only distinguish them by painting their toe-nails different colours. You might have seen them in TV series Casualty lately, trebling up to play a single baby in the drama. Stories about twins often hit the newsstands, usually for the right reasons. Tennis champ, Roger Federer, is the proud father of two sets of identical twins; Leo and Lenny were born earlier this year and it has just been announced that Richard Branson’s daughter Holly is expecting twins too. We know, however, that although giving birth to twins or triplets is well worth a celebration, there are downsides – just the logistics of looking after them can be such a major task. Have you seen the youtube video of a Norwegian Mum trying to get her twin toddlers to sleep? And then there’s the cost of special equipment and not being able to use hand-me-downs. One of the areas where having twins or triplets makes life easier is the Christening, Baptism or Naming Ceremony. You only need to organise one ceremony, so just one set of invitations, one hall booking and one buffet. To make it even easier for you The Card Gallery has designed a series of invitations and thank you cards especially to celebrate the birth of twins and triplets.
Guide to Throwing a Baby Shower

Guide to Throwing a Baby Shower

It is estimated that half of new mums-to-be in the UK have a baby shower. As it is a relatively new event in this country, many people are worried that they will do it wrong; after all there is no precedent in the family for what to do. The main areas where people feel concerned are: timing, who hosts it, presents, cost and who to invite. In this blog we aim to give you some guidance on all these issues. Firstly, however, let’s clarify what a baby shower is. In its simplest form it is a celebration of the birth or imminent birth of a new baby. It is where friends and family of the mother (or parents) meet to share advice on bringing up children, offer support to the mother (or parents) and bring gifts for the baby. Traditionally in the USA it is for the first child, although this is not a strict rule. 1. When to hold a baby shower: many people still feel it is tempting fate to receive presents and celebrate a birth before it happens, so a baby shower can be held after the birth. The down side of this is that the mum could well be tired and/or anxious and really not feel like a party. If you do decide to hold the baby shower before the birth (as in the US tradition) it should be into the third trimester – probably about a month before the due date. A good time is when the mother-to-be goes on maternity leave as work colleagues will want to wish her well. 2. Who should organise the Baby Shower? – the person who organises/hosts the shower should certainly not be the mother or father- to-be. Ideally it would be a joint effort between a close friend and a relative (sister, mother or aunt). This shows that the event is a celebration and not an excuse to receive lots of presents. The organiser should, however, consult with the mum-to-be - it should not be a surprise party. 3. Who pays for the baby shower? – the person who hosts the party should pay for it, which is why having more than one organiser/host is a good idea. A baby shower tends to be an informal event, so can be held at one of the hosts’ houses or a clubhouse/ pub function room. Light refreshments plus a cake are all that is necessary, so you can share catering responsibility. Other costs will include invitations, decorations, goody bags and prizes for games. As with all parties the organiser needs to set a budget and stick to it. 4. Should there be a present list? – family and friends will want to buy any new-born baby a present, particularly if it is the first grand-child in the family. A first time mum will certainly need the some larger basic equipment like cots, prams and baby baths, but she may have made arrangements with family members for purchasing these. (I bought my pram with money left to me by my grandmother, so I always felt it was her gift to my family). A present list is helpful in that it gives a guide as to what the mother wants, however it can look a bit greedy, particularly if it is from an expensive store. Many people like to give gender specific gifts, so if the sex of the baby is not known you could request no presents until after the birth. Guests at your baby shower should certainly NOT be expected to give a gift at the shower and then again after the birth. 5. Who should be invited to a Baby Shower? Traditionally a baby shower was an all female event, but as Dads become more involved in parenting, there is no reason why it cannot be thrown for the couple. The organiser should discuss the guest list with the parents-to-be and agree on who should be invited. The number of people attending will influence where the party will be held and the budget. As a general rule of thumb 20% of people invited will not be able to attend, so if you invite 50 people, expect 40 to attend. Invitations should be sent out 6 weeks before the shower and include: who, where, when, RSVP details and a gift list if there is one. When organising a baby shower it should be remembered that this is an informal event of celebration that should reflect the wishes of the couple having the baby. There are no set rules, so just go with what feels right.
Your Baby's Christening, Baptism or Naming Ceremony

Your Baby's Christening, Baptism or Naming Ceremony

The godparent and godchild relationship is a special bond directly between an adult and a child. Aside from any religious aspect, the relationship with a special adult nominated in a naming ceremony is exactly the same. Your naming ceremony gift to your godchild is one way of symbolising what that relationship means to you, setting the tone for how you would like that special bond to develop in the future. There is a vast array of christening, baptism and naming ceremony gifts to choose from - with something to suit everyone. We've created a list of the most popular gift types, from traditional to more unusual ideas for something truly memorable. You can find anything from financial investments and ride-on toys, to books and silverware – something for every budget! Here are a few of our ideas: Traditional silverware Classic book collections Memory/keepsake boxes Personalised gifts Ride-on/rocking toys Classic Disney films Soft toys Religious gifts Ethical gifts Playhouses Special relationship/wishes for the future It can be so hard knowing what to buy as a christening, baptism or naming ceremony present with so much to choose from - there’s also nothing worse than receiving three different silver napkin rings! Speak to the parents and seek advice form them if you aren't sure of what to get.
Menu Suggestions for your Baby Celebrations

Menu Suggestions for your Baby Celebrations

Decided to tackle the catering for your baby celebrations yourself? It can often be very difficult to decide what food to serve, how much of it.. and most crucially how much you are going to be out of pocket! Having a Fork Buffet, unlike Canapes, allows you to include more cold meats, quiches and salads to your menus. For a winter treat why not add jacket potatoes cut in half.. or even pizza. Fork buffets also mean that you need to include cutlery for your guests. This can often be a pain regarding finding matching china and dreaded washing and clearing up. However, China crockery can be hired from catering equipment companies at reasonable rates, from around £1.50 for ten plates. Disposable plastic plates and forks are not really advised as many are not strong enough and may collapse when guests are trying to eat, especially hot food. Plastic plates are a good option as they can be picked up from party shop for a good price, or simply borrow plastic picnic wear from your friends and family. Don't be scared to be adventurous with your menu.. but remember to include little ones in your choices! Here are a few examples of possible foods for your baby celebrations.. Hand Carved Meat Platter Tomato & Vegetable Quiche Party Pizza Selection Mozzarella & Tomato Salad Pesto Pasta with Pine Nuts & Spinach Chocolate Gateau