The Tradition of Engagement Rings – Announcing your Engagement

In most Western cultures, a diamond ring has become the must-have symbol of an engagement. Etiquette often suggests that men planning to propose need to invest in a diamond, with prices starting at around £1,500. But where did this tradition begin, and why are we so willing to spend so much money on engagement jewellery?

Rings have been symbols of love and commitment for centuries. In prehistory, men tied rings of braided grass around their partner’s wrists and ankles to show intention. Egyptians were buried with wire around the third finger – what we now call the “ring finger” – as they believed a vein connected it directly to the heart.

In Celtic culture, the Claddagh ring is thought to have evolved as a symbol of love and loyalty, while Romans exchanged rings with clasped hands to signify eternity. The first recorded diamond engagement ring was gifted by Holy Roman Emperor Maximilian I to Mary of Burgundy in 1477, but this was an exception rather than the rule.

Diamonds became more fashionable among aristocrats during the 19th century, especially with the invention of the famous Tiffany Setting in 1886, which maximised the sparkle of the stone. Diamonds were prized for their rarity and durability – the hardest known natural substance.

That rarity changed with the discovery of vast diamond mines in South Africa in 1867. With supply increasing, De Beers (who controlled most of the mines by the early 20th century) launched a clever marketing campaign to build demand instead.

Hollywood stars of the 1930s were seen adorned in diamonds, and in 1947 De Beers coined their now-iconic slogan: “A Diamond is Forever.” From Marilyn Monroe’s glamorous performances to James Bond films, diamonds became cemented as the ultimate symbol of romance.

While diamonds remain popular, they’re not the only way to celebrate an engagement. Many couples prefer rings that reflect their culture, values, or personality:

• Claddagh rings – A timeless Irish symbol of love, loyalty, and friendship.

• Victorian gemstone rings – Antique designs featuring sapphires, rubies, and emeralds.

• Poesy rings – Silver bands inscribed with romantic words, once popular in Europe.

• Cultural gemstones – Jade in China and Vietnam, turquoise in Native American traditions, and aquamarine, topaz, or garnet, each tied to myths of love, fidelity, and happiness.

Choosing an alternative engagement ring can make your proposal more personal and meaningful – and often more affordable, too.

However you choose to symbolise your engagement, the most important part is celebrating the love and commitment you share. An engagement is a joyful milestone, and the way you announce it should feel just as special.

At Dotty About Paper, we offer a beautiful collection of personalised engagement announcement cards and wedding stationery to mark your exciting news. From elegant save the dates to stylish invitations, our designs help you set the tone for your big day – whether you’ve chosen a sparkling diamond, a vintage gem, or something completely unique.