How to Give your Wedding Invitations a Truly Personal Touch

Invitations are, of course, a vital part of any wedding. More than just practical notes that tell your guests where and when you are getting married, wedding invitations also provide a glimpse of what’s to come. They set the tone for your celebration and give your loved ones an exciting ‘taster’ of the style, theme, and atmosphere you are planning for your big day.

In recent years, personalised wedding invitations have grown hugely in popularity. Couples want stationery that feels like them—not something generic that could belong to anyone. From colour schemes and fonts to poems and photographs, personalised invites allow you to put far more of your own personality and love story into the design.

If you’re looking for inspiration, here are some helpful tips and ideas to guide you in creating wedding invitations that are unique, meaningful, and unforgettable.

Colour is the most immediate and eye-catching aspect of any wedding invitation. It can instantly evoke mood and give guests a sense of your wedding style.

• Bright and cheerful tones: Weddings are joyous occasions, so soft pastels, blush pinks, sage greens, and gentle yellows often work beautifully.

• Elegant neutrals: Ivory, cream, or pale grey paired with metallic touches like gold foil or silver embossing can create a timeless, sophisticated look.

• Personal significance: You might choose colours that carry personal meaning—for instance, the shades of your birthstones, or even the colours of a sports team you both follow.

• Tying into your theme: Many couples match their invitations to their wider wedding colour scheme. For example, rustic weddings may feature kraft card and earthy tones, while seaside ceremonies often call for turquoise and sandy beige.

Adding ribbons, lace, fabric details, or coloured envelopes can bring depth and personality to even the simplest design.

Including photographs in your wedding invitations is one of the most direct ways to personalise them. A favourite image of you both instantly makes your stationery stand out, and guests will treasure it as a keepsake.

Options include:

• Romantic holiday snaps that capture your personalities.

• Engagement shoot photos, which are often professional, polished, and perfectly suited to stationery use.

• Retro childhood pictures of each partner, placed side by side for a fun and nostalgic touch.

• Custom illustrations or silhouettes if you’d prefer artwork rather than photography.

A black-and-white photo can create a timeless look, while a bright, colourful image often adds a playful and contemporary edge.

Typography is often overlooked, but it can completely change the tone of your wedding invitations.

• Traditional romance: Sweeping italics or calligraphy fonts add a sense of luxury and grandeur.

• Modern minimalism: Clean, sans-serif fonts in bold layouts suit contemporary weddings.

• Whimsical charm: Handwritten-style fonts can feel relaxed and informal.

For the ultimate personal touch, some couples handwrite their wedding invitations or address their envelopes using calligraphy pens. While time-consuming, it makes each piece unique and heartfelt.

Weddings are, by nature, emotional and romantic occasions—so what better way to express your feelings than with poetry?

You could:

• Use a classic romantic poem by Shakespeare or Elizabeth Barrett Browning.

• Write your own short verses describing your love story.

• Choose a lighthearted rhyme for a playful, humorous tone.

Poems don’t have to be long or overly sentimental. A simple, heartfelt line can elevate your invitation and ensure it’s remembered.

For couples who want to steer away from photos and poems, illustrations can be a wonderful alternative.

• Floral motifs that match your bouquet.

• Landmarks or locations connected to your relationship (such as where you first met or your wedding venue).

• Personal symbols like stars, animals, or travel icons if you share a passion.

Hand-drawn artwork or bespoke sketches add a layer of artistry and individuality that can’t be replicated with standard designs.

Your invitations are just one part of your stationery. Many couples choose to create a full coordinated suite so everything feels polished and connected.

If your budget is tight, focus on the essentials:

• Save the Dates – to give guests plenty of notice.

• Wedding Invitations – the core piece with all the important details.

• RSVP Cards – for collecting guest responses.

If you have room in the budget, these can elevate the experience:

• Order of Service – to guide guests through the ceremony.

• Menus – beautifully designed cards at each place setting.

• Place Cards – to keep seating organised.

• Table Plans – to help guests find their spot.

• Thank You Cards – to show appreciation after the big day.

At Dotty about Paper, we offer complete matching collections so you can build your suite step by step, starting with the basics and adding extras as budget allows.

Personalised wedding invitations are more than just pretty paper—they:

• Set the tone for your celebration.

• Give guests a glimpse of your personality as a couple.

• Act as keepsakes your loved ones will treasure.

• Ensure your wedding feels unique, from the very first moment.

Choosing personalised wedding invitations is one of the most enjoyable parts of planning your big day. From colours and fonts to poems, photos, and stationery extras, the possibilities are endless. Whether you go simple and elegant or bold and creative, your invites will become a meaningful reflection of you as a couple.

Browse our wide range of personalised wedding invitations at Dotty about Paper, complete with matching stationery, to start creating something truly unforgettable for your wedding day.