Why a Small Wedding Might Be the Best Decision You Make

Weddings don’t always have to be flashy, extravagant affairs in an attempt to replicate a royal spectacle. While Prince William and Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, had a ceremony watched by millions, many couples now seek something far more personal. Hollywood stars Evan Rachel Wood and Jamie Bell quietly tied the knot in a small ceremony, showing just how meaningful a private wedding can be.

Whether you're working with a tight budget or simply prefer a more intimate gathering, small weddings offer countless advantages – from lower costs to less stress and more time to spend with each guest.

It’s widely acknowledged that weddings can be incredibly expensive to plan. However, a smaller guest list can drastically reduce the overall cost. The number of people you send invitations to directly affects your catering bill, venue size, seating arrangements, and even your wedding stationery. By inviting only your closest friends and family, you can focus on quality over quantity – making your wedding feel more meaningful and less like a production.

There’s no rule that says you must book a five-star hotel to have a beautiful wedding reception. Many local pubs have function rooms that they’ll hire out either very cheaply or for free, especially if guests are likely to spend at the bar. Village halls and community centres are also fantastic low-cost options that can be dressed up with some simple décor to feel truly special. The key is choosing a venue that feels comfortable and authentic to you.

While hiring a wedding planner can be helpful, it’s also a big expense – and not essential, especially for smaller weddings. Planning your day yourself gives you more control and allows for more personal touches. Create a checklist and timeline, delegate tasks to helpful family members or friends, and take things one step at a time.

Wedding cakes are often stunning centrepieces, but they can also cost hundreds of pounds. An easy way to save money is to ask a friend or family member who loves baking to make your wedding cake as their gift to you. It’s a lovely gesture and often results in a far more delicious and heartfelt dessert.

You don’t need to spend a fortune to have beautiful wedding stationery. There are many affordable options available online – and at Dotty About Paper, we offer elegant and stylish wedding invitations that suit every budget. From rustic floral designs to modern minimalist styles, your invites can reflect your theme without eating into your savings.

Fresh flowers can be one of the biggest costs for a wedding, but there are creative ways around this. Gather wildflowers the day before your wedding or use blooms from your own garden to make up simple, natural bouquets. You could also contact your local college – floristry students are often looking for opportunities to build their portfolio and may offer discounted services.

Designer wedding dresses can cost thousands, but there are now countless affordable options online. High street bridal collections, vintage shops, and even second-hand platforms like Vinted or Still White offer a wide range of styles for every bride. If you're handy with a sewing machine – or know someone who is – consider designing and making your dress from scratch for a truly unique and budget-friendly look.

One of the greatest advantages of a small wedding is that you get to truly enjoy the day with the people who matter most. You’ll have time to talk to everyone, soak in the atmosphere, and focus on the commitment you’re making – without worrying about timelines, logistics, or pleasing a crowd of 150+ guests.

In the end, a wedding isn’t defined by how much money is spent. It’s defined by love, joy, and the memories you create. A smaller wedding can be just as magical – if not more so – than a grand, high-budget affair.