How to Politely Ask for Cash as a Wedding Gift
Many modern couples live together before tying the knot, which means they already own the traditional home essentials that used to make up wedding gift lists—think toasters, towels, and tableware. As a result, more and more couples are choosing not to have a traditional gift registry at all.
At Dotty about Paper, we’ve seen a growing trend among couples requesting money towards their honeymoon instead of physical gifts. It’s a practical and appreciated option—but how do you ask without sounding impolite?
The answer: thoughtful and well-worded notes or poems.
How to Ask for Cash Gifts Without Being Rude
The best way to make your request clear and tactful is with a short poem or message. This can be included:
Inside your wedding invitations
On a separate poem card slipped into the envelope
As part of your wedding website, if you're going digital
Here are some of the most popular examples our customers use:
Wedding Gift Poem Ideas
The tradition of the wishing well used on the wedding day,
is here both for your money gifts and for what you would like to say.
So please drop in a token of love for this special Groom & Bride,
as they start their life united by God to live forever side by side.
Your presence at our wedding is present enough,
But if we’re honoured with a gift from you,
May we respectfully request a gift of money
To help the dream of a honeymoon come true!
We really hope you can join us on our special day
You'll make all our memories complete in every single way
We do not have a gift list and we know you'll understand
Our house and contents are complete with pots and plates and pans
But should you really want to give and celebrate this way
A gift of money would be great for a rainy day
Simple Paragraph Wording for Money Gifts
If you’d prefer something more straightforward than a poem, here are some wording examples you can use:
We respectfully ask that no gifts are brought.
If you wish to make a cash gift,
There will be a box at the reception
To help us purchase some larger home items.
We have everything we need after living together for a year,
And only ask that you share our special day.
However, if you wanted to make a monetary contribution,
We would be most grateful, but please do not feel obliged to do so.
The most important thing for us is your presence on the day.
Gifts are by no means expected.
If, however, you do feel you’d like to contribute,
Some spending money for our honeymoon would be much appreciated.
Need Help With Your Wedding Wording?
If you're unsure how to word your request, the friendly team at Dotty about Paper is always happy to help. Whether you're looking for a tactful message, a custom poem, or simply the right design for your invitation inserts, we can guide you through it all.
📞 Call us on 01746 766876
📧 Or email us at info@dottyaboutpaper.co.uk
