What Should I Say in a Thank You Card?
It can be difficult knowing what to put in a funeral thank you card after the funeral or death of one of your loved ones.
We are here to help. Here are some wording examples to thank funeral guests for their attendance at the funeral, for flowers, charity donations, or gifts.
For Their Attendance
Saying thank you to someone for attending a funeral isn't necessary, but if you do want to show your appreciation then a card is a great way.
"Thank you for attending
"It was lovely to see you at
"Thank you so much for attending

For Funeral Flowers
Many people bring flowers to a funeral, so thank them with a personalised card. Here are some wording examples:
"Thank you so much for the beautiful flowers."
"Thank you so much for your thoughtful gift of flowers. Your kindness means so much to us."
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For a Donation
Instead of gifts at a funeral, you may ask attendees for charity donations. Say 'thank you' with one of these lovely messages:
"We are so grateful for your generosity. Thank you so much for caring about
"Thank you for your kindness in remembering
"Thank you for your generous donation to

For a Gift
Finally, for a gift, you might also want to send a nice thank you message. Here are some ideas:
"Thank you so much for your thoughtful gift after
"I was deeply touched by your thoughtful gift, and will treasure it for years to come. Thank you for thinking of me."
"Thank you for sending such a beautiful gift after the funeral. It was so incredibly thoughtful and we love you!"
We hope you have found this blog useful. For more funeral stationery help, be sure to check out our other blogs.
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UPDATED ON
March 17, 2025
