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Creating a beautiful funeral program (or 'order of service') is much easier than it sounds. Here is our quick guide to funeral program wording

When someone close to you has passed away, you will want to cherish the special memories. A funeral bookmark is a lovely way to remember that special person, and they will be much appreciated by funeral guests at the funeral or after the funeral. Here is how to personalise a funeral bookmark

A memorial card is a small card that is given out at funerals, which makes a thoughtful tribute to the person who has passed away. They contain a few details about the person, as well as a photo to remember them by. They are just the right size to be kept in a wallet or purse, making a beautiful reminder of that special person that friends and family will cherish.

What do you put on a memorial card?

Memorial cards don't need a lot of details on. Usually, we recommend that the front of the card contains the name of the person who died, the date of when they were born and when they died, and a lovely photograph. On the reverse, you may like to add a quote, poem, or song lyrics to remember your loved one by. A poem that will be read at the funeral is also a good idea. Featured Product: Funeral Memorial Cards - Celtic Border You can personalise your cards however you want - add your own photos and wording to complete. It's a great way to remember your loved one's personality, whether they were outgoing, creative, or funny. Featured Product: Funeral Memorial Cards - Pink Peony Here at Dotty about Paper, we have a wide range of memorial cards with many different designs available. Our cards are easy to personalise; you can choose from eight different poems or add your own wording. If you have any questions about your funeral stationery, feel free to get in touch. We will be happy to help.

A funeral order of service is a booklet containing details about the schedule of a funeral ceremony. They are given to mourners when they arrive at the funeral. It contains a range of hymns, readings, or poems that will be read or sung at the funeral. It's a lovely way to commemorate a loved one's life. Here is what you should include.

The Front Cover

The front cover of your order of service will usually be simple. You can choose from a range of different designs to find something to suit your loved one. Featured Product: Funeral Order of Service - Red Rose Scroll The front cover would usually include: • A photo of the deceased • Their full name • Their date of birth and date of death • The location, date, and time of the service You may also wish to include a special quote.

Inside

The inside of your order of service will contain many different things. You may wish to include: • The titles of the songs being played upon guests' arrival • An introduction by the person who is conducting the service • The wording to any hymns or songs • The wording to any readings or speeches, as well as the names of the individual speakers • Group prayers • Details about the closing music Featured Product: Funeral Order of Service - Celtic Border

Final page

On the last page of your order of service, you may wish to include a photograph of the deceased. You might opt for a more fun photograph than you used on the front of your order of service, such as a family photograph. If you are wishing for charity donations, this is a good place to note this, too. Featured Product: Funeral Order of Service - Poppies & Butterflies If you have any questions about funeral stationery, you can contact our professional team by phone or email. They will be happy to help you.

Funeral announcement cards are sent to let family and friends know the details of a loved one's funeral. Here is what you should include.

A photograph

A special photograph of your loved one will remind everyone of how amazing they were. It also makes your announcement cards such a beautiful memento. Featured Product: Funeral Announcement Cards - Ornate Border Some people choose to put a special old photo on the stationery, perhaps showing their loved one on their wedding day or another significant moment. Others may prefer to choose a recent photo that really captures their personality. It's your choice.

Name of the deceased

Include the person's full name, as well as any nicknames that they had, e.g. Ernest 'Ernie' Jones. This is a great way to show their personality, and it means that everyone will feel familiar with the names used. If they were a married woman, you may also want to include their maiden name, too.

The date of death

You might want to mention the date that they passed away. This is particularly important for friends that you haven't been in touch with recently, as they may not know as many details. Featured Product: Funeral Announcement Cards - Pink Peony Some people also choose to mention how they died, e.g. 'after a short illness', but this is completely up to you.

The date of the funeral

Mention the date of the funeral. Include what day of the week it is, too, especially if it falls midweek.

The location of the funeral

Write where the funeral venue is and how to get there, particularly if it is a remote location.

Any extra details

Other things you may want to include are the location of the funeral reception, whether or not you are accepting flowers, and if you want donations sent to a particular charity. Featured Product: Funeral Announcement Cards - Single Candle You know your loved one best, so write whatever you think suits them and their personality.

Some wording examples:

The Brown Family are sad to announce the passing of Mary Jane Brown on 6th June, 2020. A service will be held at St Mary's Church, Bridgnorth, on 20th June, 2020 at 2 o'clock. In loving memory of Mary Jane Brown. Beloved mother and grandmother. Forever in our hearts. Please join us at St Mary's Church, Bridgnorth, on 20th June, 2020 at 2 o'clock to celebrate her life. It is with our deepest sorrows that we inform you of the death of our beloved grandmother, Mary Jane Brown. A private family memorial service will be held on 20th June, 2020 at 2 o'clock, at St Mary's Church, Bridgnorth. We hope you have found this blog useful. Please get in touch if you need any help with your funeral stationery - we are always ready to give a helping hand.

Memorial cards are small cards designed to fit into a wallet or purse. They serve as a reminder of the deceased. Cards might also be placed in memorial gardens or in cemetery flower bouquets placed by a grave. Most stationers offer laminated cards to provide extra protection against wear and tear. Family members and close friends traditionally receive them. There is no set time or etiquette for sending out memorial cards; you can think about them whenever you feel ready. Writing memorial cards is never easy. It can be hard to find the words to reflect how special your loved one was and how much they mean to you. So, to help you through this challenging time, we’ve compiled some ideas to help you with the wording.

Wording Memorial Cards

Many choose to add a meaningful phrase or quote to their memorial cards, either in tribute to them or to remind them of that person's life. Write a short sentence that captures an aspect of the deceased’s personality. Consider basing it on a treasured memory. Or you might prefer to add a message of love and remembrance:

"Those that touch our lives stay in our hearts forever."

"You will never be forgotten."

"The memory of you will always be in our hearts."

"Your love will light our way, your memory will forever be with us."

You may want to commemorate a quote or words of wisdom the deceased once said, or choose a saying that they loved. Alternatively, here are some beautiful quotes you could use:

"The song is ended, but the melody lingers on." - Irving Berlin

"There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart." - Mahatma Gandhi

“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” - Thomas Campbell

"Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened." - Dr. Suess

If the loved one was religious, you could also add a favourite scripture or piece of religious text.

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Memorial Poems

The backs of memorial cards usually show a poem. Selecting the verse for your card can be difficult due to the amount of choice. To help you pick, consider using poems that your loved one enjoyed so you can be reminded of them when you read it. And if you’re still having trouble deciding, here are a few to inspire you:

Afterglow by Helen Lowrie Marshall

I'd like the memory of me

To be a happy one,

I'd like to leave an afterglow

Of smiles when life is done,

I'd like to leave an echo

Whispering softly down the ways,

Of happy times and laughing times,

And bright and sunny days,

I'd like the tears of those who grieve

To dry before the sun

Of happy memories that I leave

When life is done.

Memories Build a Special Bridge by Emily Matthews

Our memories build a special bridge when loved ones have to part,

To help us feel we’re with them still, and soothe a grieving heart,

Our memories span the years we shared, preserving ties that bind,

They build a special bridge of love and bring us peace of mind.

Do Not Stand At My Grave and Weep by Mary Frye

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there,

I do not sleep,

I am a thousand winds that blow,

I am the diamond glints on snow,

I am the sunlight on ripened grain,

I am the gentle autumn’s rain,

When you awaken in the morning’s hush,

I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight,

I am the soft stars that shine at night,

Do not stand at my grave and cry;

I am not there,

I did not die.

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Memorial Card Design

Words can express so much, but there’s more you can do to turn a memorial card into a treasured tribute to your loved one. Choose a design that represents your loved one in either its patterns or artwork. For instance, if they were a gardener, you could pick a card with a floral pattern. Likewise, if they were religious, a symbol of their faith would be fitting. In addition, you could choose something that represents a hobby they loved. Finally, complete the card with a photograph of your loved one. This is a wonderful chance to pay tribute to their life, so pick your most treasured picture. Featured Design: 'Ladies Gardening'

We are pleased to announce that we now offer an extensive range of funeral stationery. Organising a funeral is never going to be easy, but we aim to make this part as stress-free as possible with beautiful designs expertly printed and backed by our caring customer service. Our range of stationery includes everything you need to make the day go smoothly plus a selection of keepsakes to help keep memories of your loved one close. All items are fully personalised and can include a photograph – just email it to us once you’ve placed your order. Announcements / Invitations Letting people know about the funeral is no longer as easy as putting a notice in the paper. Sending announcement cards makes sure you can contact everyone who wants to pay their respects without spending hours on the telephone. Order of Service The Order of Service not only guides people through the ceremony – it also provides a lasting keepsake. There are designs for all styles of funeral - whether you are having a traditional church service, a catholic mass or something more unusual like a humanist funeral. Our booklets are A5 size and extra pages can be added inside if required. On the Day When it comes to the day of the funeral itself, we can help make things just that little bit easier. Ask everyone to complete an attendance card and not only will you have a reminder of who was present (useful for people like work colleagues you may not have met) but you will also have some lovely messages to read through later. And with charity contributions now more popular than flowers, a donation box is a practical way to collect those gifts. Thank You Cards It’s comforting to receive cards and letters of sympathy, but writing thank you letters at such a difficult time can seem very daunting. Personalised thank you cards make it just that little bit easier. Happy Memories Completing the collection are three simple keepsake ideas for keeping those precious memories close. Memorial cards are designed to slip into a purse or wallet while a bookmark is practical and useful too. And a book of condolence is perfect for keeping together all those messages that mean so much. Our Designs Our wide range of designs means you can find something suitable whatever the person’s age, interests or type of funeral. This includes styles suitable for the funerals of babies, children and teenagers. Exceptional Customer Service Our helpful customer services team are here to guide you so if you have any questions just give us a call. We aim to make the whole process completely stress-free.